Tuesday, May 05, 2009
the loss of a good friend is one of the hardest things to bare, second only to the lost of a loved one...but its something you have to accept as part and parcel of life...
friendship is something built by communication, but thats only the start of it. for if you simply stop here, then the moment the communication breaks off thats it for your friendship...
you may put your all into it, but at the end of the day, if the friendship was build just on talks, sharing sessions, then the moment these stop, you lose the connection with that friend... sure you will still talk to them occasionally and go out sometimes, but you will find that its not like before... the same kind of closeness is gone, almost as if it was never there to begin with...
sadly, most of our friendships are built like this... even bestfriends that share everything fall apart the moment we run out of things to share... it starts small, you talk less, then slowly but almost surely it stops all together... sad but true...
however, there is the friendships that last the longest... those are the friendships built on hardships and good times share...
and so this post is going out to all my brothers you know who you are...
we have been to hell and back together, endure shit literally and figuratively, we had idiots around us giving us hell and we seen the low of the lows... but somehow we always emerge from the laughing our butts off... "seriously" has become like a joke to us.... no matter how serious the matter is we somehow are able to make a joke of the whole thing... usually we get scolded for that.. but look back it was really worth it... hahah
looking back we have done some of the stupidest things together and those usually have some bad consequences.. hahah be it burning everything we can get our hands on literally, even things that shouldnt be burnt, and either getting scolded for it or getting burnt, drinking things that are bad for you cause you think its water and getting a burning throat... "stealing" stuff thats not ours but always denying it... damaging public property accidentally and breaking all sorts of nonsense with our crazy stunts... and all the other nonsense we do...
its all in the name of fun and thats what builds a true friendship... literally a good friendship is built by stupidity, shit and most importantly.... FUN...
thats why we do it still now...
BROTHERS FOREVER GUYS!